Client Relationships

Why accountants do what they do
When I ask accountants their WHY, most reply that they want to help their clients. In every workshop, conversation, planning day, the top response is “I want to help my clients.”
In the 25 years that I have been working with accounting firms, I have seen their commitment to helping their clients. Yes, they are constantly under pressure and don’t have time to service their clients as well as they would like. Yes, turnaround times blow out and occasionally things fall through the cracks. But the accountant’s commitment to helping their clients meet their compliance obligations and keeping/getting them out of trouble is second to none.
Accountants nag, cajole, run interference, negotiate and fight for their clients every single day. The cost to accountants is stress, overwork, overwhelm and guilt for not having enough time to look after all their clients properly. They also sacrifice time with their families, their physical and mental health.
Unfortunately, not all clients value what their accountant does for them and the sacrifices they make. They are slow to pay, don’t send in the information needed in a timely manner, ignore advice and complain about the bill. These clients are in the minority. However, they take resources away from our good clients and they cause unnecessary stress for the entire team.
And yet we keep them. Why? Perhaps we feel sorry for them, they might be a good referrer, they are connected to a number of good clients, they have been a client for many years, the fee is large and the list goes on…
I would like to challenge you to think about one difficult client over the weekend. The first client who comes to mind is the one. List what makes them difficult. Then list the reasons that you continue to work with them. That’s all. I’m not asking you to get rid of them (yet). Just document the reasons you would love to get rid of them and the reasons you continue working with them.
DM me next week and we can talk it through. I’m happy to be your sounding board.
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Find the courage to walk away
Many times in my personal and professional life, I have struggled to make the move and walk away from situations I knew weren’t good for me. I just couldn’t make the move. It was too hard, so I stayed in the bad personal relationship, with the difficult client, in a situation that was not good for me.
Each and every time that I stuck it out, circumstances brought the situation to a head in a way that I couldn’t ignore. A client who became abusive, another who left because I wouldn’t do something that was not legal or ethical.
The partner of one of the firms I worked with was devastated when a client, who he considered to be a friend, left because the accountant refused to write a letter confirming an overstated revenue figure for the bank. He knew that he made the right decision but he was blown away by the entitled attitude of the client, in thinking that the accountant was in the wrong!
Today, I am challenging you to think carefully and release the client(s) that you know deep down you should. Do it before circumstances take the matter out of your hands.
Stay tuned next week for some practical tips on how to have “the talk” with your client.
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7 Steps to deal with rude clients
How does your firm deal with rude clients?
Do you tolerate their behaviour because the fee is large, or they have been with the firm for decades? Do you find yourself saying “It’s just the way they are, ignore them.”
No one in our team should be abused by any client! NEVER!
So how do we handle rude and abusive clients?
Step 1 – Design a process for reporting abusive behaviour
The process needs to be documented so that each member of your team knows who they talk to and the steps that will be followed to address the issue. Who is this behaviour reported to? What are the steps to deal with the behaviour?
Step 2 – Document the behaviour in the client file
The specifics need to be documented in the client file for a number of reasons:
· To keep track of the number of instances and what exactly was said.
· A more factual conversation can be had with the client where dates, times and specific behaviours can be discussed with the client
· An audit trail is created if necessary to address any issues that may arise with your professional body, PI insurance and the ATO
Step 3 – Discuss at an executive level
Make a decision about what will be done. What are the options:
· Let it slide.
· Contact the client to discuss.
· Communicate the consequences to the client of future abusive behaviour.
· Decide to let the client go based on historical behaviour.
Step 4 – Discuss the above decision with the client
This needs to be a conversation either face-to-face or on the phone. Give the client specifics about the complaint and then listen to their explanation. Listen carefully and calmly. Take notes on their response. Then once they have finished speaking, tell them what was decided at the partners’ meeting and why. Be firm, calm and detached.
Step 5 – Confirm your discussion in writing
Document your discussion in an email to the client with the actions that the firm will take in moving forward. If you are terminating the relationship, write a formal letter and notify any other relevant bodies. Include all documentation on their file.
Step 6 – Inform the team member
Have a private conversation with the team member who made the complaint. Give them the basic information of what happened and the reasons for your decision. Reassure them that you support them and give them the opportunity to be removed from working with the client if necessary.
Step 7 – Inform your team
Everyone in your team will know some of the details of what happened, so it’s best for the information to come from you. Outline briefly what occurred and the decision that was made at executive level.
Reinforce that abusive behaviour by a client is not acceptable. Remind them of the process in place to report such behaviour. Most importantly, remind them how to conduct themselves professionally AND that it is the partners’ decision to terminate the client.
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Are you doing all the heavy lifting?
Many accountant/client relationships are 90/10 at worst but rarely 50/50.
Accountants have a set of rules for their team regarding servicing their clients. Rarely do firms have a set of rules for their clients apart from their obligations regarding record keeping and full disclosure. Engagement letters do spell out the client’s obligations regarding fees but often the client ignores these.
We need to remember that ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE TWO WAY.
What does your firm expect from your clients?
What do your clients expect from your firm?
Are you the one always:
· nagging clients to send in work
· reminding them about deadlines
· following up queries and missing information
· smoothing things over with the ATO because the client hasn’t met their commitments
· chasing payments
Most clients are very co-operative but some are not. We are there to ASSIST our clients in meeting their obligations to the ATO. Our role is not to take those RESPONSIBILTIES onto our shoulders.
If you have these types of clients, it’s time to set up some very specific rules and boundaries.
Brainstorm these with your team. Document them and then discuss them with the client.
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Listen to your intuition
Every time that I have allowed logic to override my intuition, it’s ended in disaster. Your instinct is not woo woo. Your subconscious picks up on patterns that you have seen in the past before your logical brain catches up. Take notice!
I met with one prospective client years ago who was a rude know it all. He was aggressive and arrogant. At the time, I needed the fee, so I took him on as a client. I justified my decision by thinking that maybe it was his way and that once we started working together, he would see value and that we could work together. Unfortunately, I was right about him. He wouldn’t take advice, he was very difficult to deal with, and he didn’t pay any of my invoices. Ultimately, I had to take him to the tribunal, and he was ordered to pay my fee in full and all costs. The stress and time that I lost to prepare and attend the tribunal were a huge cost to me. I should have listened to my instinct at my first meeting with him!
When I met another similar client many years later, I listened to my instinct. John had recently purchased the firm of one of my clients who I had worked with for 14 years. He was similarly aggressive and arrogant and this time I paused and listened to my intuition. At the end of the meeting, John looked at me and said, “so Dorothy, what can you do for my firm?” I looked him in the eye and replied, “based on our conversation today, John, I don’t think that I can help you!” Months later, I found out that the firm had imploded. Staff and clients had left in droves, and the firm was in trouble.
Not all clients deserve you and your firm. Listen to your intuition and reject them at the first meeting. The cost to your team and your firm is not worth the fee.
Let me know what you think.
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Your difficult client - Who do you choose?
So which client was the first to come to mind? It was a no brainer, right?
Why? Are they:
· Slow to pay
· Difficult to work with
· Uncooperative and unresponsive
· Disrespectful
· Chaotic
· Unprofitable
· Rude
· Unappreciative
· Always late
· Critical
· Irresponsible with their obligations and their money
· Repeat offenders
You don’t need me to tell you that if you answered yes to three or more of the above, you should be parting ways with the client. But many of you won’t. I know it’s difficult to let go of clients. Especially when the fee is large. I’ve been afraid to walk away from difficult clients because I needed the fee.
One client represented 35% of my revenue. I persevered as long as I could but the director was “sailing closer to the wind” every week. In the end, I had to let go because I was in danger of getting caught up in a very questionable legal situation. I was terrified of how I would replace the lost revenue. Miraculously, I replaced the fee within two weeks. And this has happened every time I have decided to walk away from a client. I found new clients within weeks of losing the old client. Every time!
Write down your reasons for keeping your difficult client. Talk through them with a colleague in your firm. What was your decision? I’d love to know the outcome, so get in touch.
Perhaps you are good at making the hard decisions about difficult clients and I’m stating the obvious. But if you have a colleague that needs to be challenged, share this article with them.
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Breaking up is hard to do
Not quite ready to let go of that difficult client?
Maybe they aren’t that bad. I really don’t want to lose that fee. He/she will tell their friends (who are also clients) that I let them go. They are good referrers.
It’s not an easy decision to make. So, don’t make a decision yet. Gather the data first, so that you can make an informed decision.
What is the dollar value per year of this client? What percentage of your fee base is this client?
How much do you write on/off?
What are the WIP and debtor days on this client? Are they slow payers?
How many days does it take for the client to answer queries and send missing information?
How many times does the client need to be reminded to send in their work?
How often do they complain about the fee?
How often do they complain?
Do they take advice and respect your team’s efforts?
How often do they get themselves into trouble and expect you to bail them out?
How much revenue has this client referred in dollars? Calculate the average yearly dollar value. Are the referred clients profitable? Are they easy to deal with or are they as difficult as the referring client?
What is the dollar total per year of the friends/family of this client? How much of your firm’s fee base is potentially at risk in the unlikely event that they leave your firm in sympathy?
Document the answers to all these questions and then make a list of all the reasons that you want to keep this client. Be honest with your reasons. Are you keeping them because you don’t want to have “the talk” with them? Do they have potential in the future? Is their current situation just temporary due to a significant life crisis? Have they been a loyal client in the past? Do you feel sorry for them and you just want to help?
All of these are legitimate and reasonable reasons to keep these clients.
However, you need to make a CONSCIOUS DECISION to keep them or let them go. You have to give yourself and your team reasons for continuing to deal with this client.
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Script for calling rude clients
Yesterday I outlined the 7 steps to dealing with rude and abusive clients.
Today, I am sharing a suggested script for discussing the issue with the client.
“HI John, this is Dorothy from Empowering Accountants. How are you doing?”
Allow the client to talk. Listen carefully and take notes.
“The reason for my call today is to discuss a complaint that I have received from one of (or some of) my team regarding your behaviour recently. They told me that you shouted at them and called them names. They were quite shaken by the encounter with you and came to me to talk through what happened.”
Be silent and allow the client to talk. Listen carefully to their response and take notes.
The client will respond in one of many ways:
“I’m sorry that I spoke to them harshly. I was under enormous stress and I took it out on them. That’s not OK and I was in the wrong. I would like to apologise to you and to them. What do you suggest?”
OR
“They are stupid and I am not happy with them. I was just telling the truth and I shouted because I was justifiably furious. He/she is an incompetent idiot!”
You then ask the client to tell you specifically how the conversation went. Again, take notes.
“Thank you for this information John. I’ll look into your complaint and get back to you.”
If it is obvious that the client will continue this behaviour in the future and has a history of abusing your team:
“John, we do not tolerate this kind of behaviour towards our team members. They are doing their best to help you and they deserve to be treated with respect. If you cannot be calm and respectful when speaking with our team, I’m afraid that there is no future for our business relationship.”
Then you can discuss the logistics of handover.
I recommend that this conversation is had after you have invoiced the WIP on this client, collected all outstanding money and dealt with any outstanding issues. You should have all your “ducks in a row” as much as possible before you have this conversation.
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Client relationships are a 2-way street
Last week I asked if you are doing most of the heavy lifting in your client relationships.
Most accountants that I have worked with in the last 25 years, have gone above and beyond, to support their clients. They have high expectations of their team and work long hours to keep their clients out of trouble. Their priority is always the client, always.
However, many of these clients have no idea what their accountant does on their behalf behind the scenes! Clients don’t understand the amount of work involved, the numerous calls to the ATO on their behalf, the problem solving and trouble shooting. They expect us to deal with everything (even if it is their own fault)! We expect so little of them and they are happy with that.
What do our clients expect from us? What do we expect of our firm in servicing those clients? Are these expectations reasonable? What do we do when the client’s expectations are unreasonable?
The first step is for us to document the answers to these questions. Brainstorm this with your team. Yes, it will take a little time and effort, but nothing will change until we take the time to deal with this issue head on. We need to stop reacting and start responding to our clients’ demands.
How do we take control?
1. Document specifically client expectations
2. Identify what is reasonable and what is unreasonable
3. Discuss honestly how we currently deal with these
4. Brainstorm how we can deal with these differently
This shouldn’t take more than an hour of your teams’ time.
Put on a working lunch and invite the entire team. They will be more than happy to give up a lunch hour to contribute their ideas.
Let me know if you need feedback on how to best undertake this exercise.
I congratulate you on having the courage to taking this first step!
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